JOY OF MARRIAGE: Home Tips For All Men and Women by Dr Zafaran Adeniyi



Building a peaceful and useful home; for the future of Islam cones next to building individuals for Islamic mission. 

Your home are the barometer of what transpires in the society.

Your husband or wife is Allah's qadar for you.There is nothing you can do about it. Accept the reality and turn to Allah for guidance and assistance.

Do not compare your to another because of materials glittering. Be contented with little Allah has done for you, for there are other who are worse than yours.

Patience is the sustenance of matrimony, have it and give it. 

Be sincere with Allah and fear him in your husband or wife.

Be not a wife beater and be not a nagging wife. 

An islamically ideal home is mini Paradise. 

If the society must be virtuous and strong, we must set the matrimonial block correctly.

The way and place you position your husband or wife in your heart tells the state of your home.

Matrimony us a trust, cherish it and fulfills its obligation.

Utmost concern for children's upbringing is indispensable in building a virile Ummah. 

Take life as it comes, and accept the bitter and the sweet.

Think hard about any action or decision, and do not blame anyone else for your decision or it's consequences. 

Have the habits is smiling and being cheerful, and keep company with optimistic people. 

Strive to make others happy so that you may benefit from the atmosphere of Happiness. 

Make the most of occasion of happiness and joy, and regard them as necessary to renew happiness. 

Enjoy today and make the most of it's; look for things that will prevent pain from happiness before it attack you.

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