Beyond Religion: Are You Truly Ready For Marriage A Letter To The Bachelors Of This Generation By Mutohhir Olanrewaju Abdulhamid
In this 21st century, many Gen-Z youths are no longer thinking seriously about marriage. Some understand the reality and responsibilities that come with it, and that is why they are running away from it. Others truly desire marriage, but the harsh Nigerian economy keeps discouraging them. One thing we must understand is this: marriage is not all about sex. It goes far beyond physical attraction and romantic feelings. Marriage is a lifelong journey filled with sacrifice, patience, responsibility, understanding, and emotional maturity. If you truly desire to raise children and build a peaceful home, then you must sit down with yourself and ask honestly: “Am I truly ready for this journey?” What I have realized is that preparation for marriage is a gradual process. It does not start on the wedding day. It begins from the stage of self-development and responsibility. Graduating from school — whether from a College, Polytechnic, or University — is important. Learning a skill or ...