My Thoughts on Marital Life by Mutohhir Abdulhamid Olanrewaju
In my opinion, marital life—whether before, during, or after marriage—is a reflection of the kind of heart you have and how deeply you connect with Allah. Beyond that, it also depends on whether you pass through life’s proper stages, or “right of passage,” which is compulsory for all of mankind, whether we like it or not. By “right of passage,” I mean the stages in life that everyone must go through. It is important to seek guidance from those who have knowledge and experience in these stages if one wishes to live a meaningful life. I have learned much from my colleagues, mentors, parents, lecturers, and scholars. I have heard and seen many lessons about marital life. Although I am yet to marry, I have gained valuable insights from these sources. A smooth marital life requires pure intentions, understanding, and comprehensive knowledge. Happiness in marriage comes when both spouses are aligned in purpose and understanding. Conversely, marital life becomes difficult when the...